03-11-2015, 11:29 PM
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Primeiro, coisas básicas mudam, desde ir na padaria a sair com a namorada, você com o passar do tempo vai adquirir costumes, trejeitos.
Seus ciclo de amigos com certeza vai reduzir, sabe aquele amigo e/ou colega que curte uma maconha? Dificilmente você o manterá no seu ciclo social.
Você passa a ser um "agente da lei" tudo o que você faz não leva só seu nome, leva o arquétipo do policial, da instituição a qual você faz parte.
A sua conduta passa a ser pautada pela polícia, você sente na pele o peso que este nome tem.
*Esqueci de dizer da famosa ARMA, um objeto de 800g que decide sobre a vida e a morte, objeto de desejo dos pebas, simbolo da força policial, que dá pra fazer um mega posto só com a questão de andar ou não andar armado.
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Opa, posso adicionar um negocio que li dois dias atrás?
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Primeiro, coisas básicas mudam, desde ir na padaria a sair com a namorada, você com o passar do tempo vai adquirir costumes, trejeitos.
Seus ciclo de amigos com certeza vai reduzir, sabe aquele amigo e/ou colega que curte uma maconha? Dificilmente você o manterá no seu ciclo social.
Você passa a ser um "agente da lei" tudo o que você faz não leva só seu nome, leva o arquétipo do policial, da instituição a qual você faz parte.
A sua conduta passa a ser pautada pela polícia, você sente na pele o peso que este nome tem.
*Esqueci de dizer da famosa ARMA, um objeto de 800g que decide sobre a vida e a morte, objeto de desejo dos pebas, simbolo da força policial, que dá pra fazer um mega posto só com a questão de andar ou não andar armado.
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Opa, posso adicionar um negocio que li dois dias atrás?
Citar:Becoming an LEO is not just a professional change, it is a lifestyle change. Everything changes, including your personal life.It does change your relationship with your family and friends, because they start to see you differently and start to see the changes in your personality. At my graduation from the academy, they told us that "the badge is heavy". What they meant is that when you are sworn in, and you take on that badge, you carry a weight that the rest of society does not.
The weight you carry is that you are going to be the first person your friends and family turn to when something goes sideways in their life. They will come to you for advice for seemingly mundane things that they never would have asked you before. And, they will expect your help.
You will feel the uncomfortable physical weight of your firearm off-duty, as you move about your day, but also the crushing weight of constant vigil and attention to where you are, who is around you, where is the door, and who are the threats. You will find that when you get up to use the restroom in a crowded restaurant, you will scan the faces and clothing of the other patrons, searching for someone who looks like trouble or who you have ran into in the past.
You will bear the weight of whatever innocence you have left being ripped away from you as you encounter the dregs of society every day, day after day, week after week. You will see people from all walks of life at their lowest points, over and over again. You will see a failed mental mental health system, cycles of incarceration with little rehabilitation, and generations of lives destroyed by circumstances out of people's control. You will see violence and cruelty on an unimaginable level, that you can never forget. You will witness true anger, and true, down-to-the-core hate, and will be forced to stand in the middle of it and remain calm, collected, and impartial.
You will go on the stand and give testimony that tears families apart and puts the breadwinner in prison, and children on the street. You will tell troubled youth over and over to get their life together and stay in school, only to watch the coroner scoop them up a few days later. You will see emotionally destroyed people return to the arms of their lover who beat them within an inch of their life, over and over again, and will be unable to do anything. You will wash blood, shit, vomit, and who knows what else from your hands and your boots on a daily basis.
You will feel helpless, you will feel angry, you will feel sad, and happy, and excited, and numb, and brave, and scared, and everything else up and down like an emotional roller coaster. Your entire world view will be tilted and you will have to reassess what you thought you knew about people, about kindness, and about humanity.
And throughout it all, you will have to stay who you are. You will have to stay honest, truthful, impartial, non-judgemental, fair, and understanding. You will have to make life and death decisions in the blink of an eye. You might even have to bend the rules in order to help a victim or a child that you know stands no chance at all if you follow policy and simply clear for the next call.
And despite your noblest intentions, people will spit at you, punch you, kick you, shoot at you, curse you and your family, and wish death upon you without even knowing who you are as a person. Very rarely will anyone say thank you, or acknowledge your work.
So does the job change you? I'd say that if it doesn't, there is something wrong with you. This job changes you, in every way imaginable. It's up to you to carry the weight and stay true to who you are as a human being despite it all.
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